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Lost In the Line - One Year Later
He died on his 34th birthday. A man charged with his murder awaits trial. His family will hold a memorial service Sunday at First United Methodist Church. Afterwards, with the assistance of fellow game wardens and a TP&WD boat, Hurst's widow, Amanda, will spread his ashes near Palacios in the bay system he so loved. "That's where we liked to go. That's where we liked to fish ... and that's where he would want to be," she said for a March 21, 2007 article in the El Campo Leader-News.
Mrs. Hurst said Friday she currently has no special plans for Monday. But Sunday will be busy. The anniversary will be observed this weekend with family and friends. Hurst's parents, Allen and Pat, moved to El Campo only a few weeks before their son was killed. And his brother Greg and his wife will be coming in from Colorado. "And some of the wardens will be coming in on Sunday. We'll be doing a barbecue on Sunday evening," she said. The past year has been difficult, but busy, Mrs. Hurst said.
And people still stop by the house and phone her. "Lots of the guys (wardens) are really good about keeping in touch with us; calling and checking in. We still have our same group that comes by once a week or every other week and helps out around the house," she said. Mrs. Hurst said this week she would be happy to be interviewed about her husband, but not about the man who is charged with his murder, understandably asking that he not even be mentioned by name. She said she deals with it by "not thinking about it." "The only thing it does is weigh my calendar down, waiting for it to hurry and get here and hurry to get over with. But I don't think about it," she said. "I just do the best I can." The man who allegedly killed Hurst is awaiting trial on capital murder charges. Jury selection, which could take four to five weeks, is set to begin Aug. 18. "It's a long process. So how do you schedule or plan anything during that time? But we'll get by. I'm ready to move on," she said. Helping the situation are her friends, Justin's parents and her son. "I'm more involved with my friends and people in general. I try not to let the little things weigh me down. I go and visit my friends a lot and they come and visit me a lot," she said. "I think I'm a lot more compassionate now. It's easier for me to relate to other people and their circumstances and to be more compassionate to them. But on the other extreme, it's hard to deal with people who complain about petty things." Her son has helped her to keep things in perspective this year. "He's amazing. He keeps me going. He's my sanity. But the thing that really tears my heart out is he'll run up to the telephone and say, 'Daddy?, Daddy?' Like Daddy's on the phone, and I'm like, 'Oh, I wish he were.'" |
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